I have no new msg/fr, so why do I have at least 3 notifs for each?

I love the idea of a twitter for fem presenting guys/gals/nonbinary pals, it has a lot of potential and appeals to me personally, and I do see updates rolling out & active owners, but it feels like there's a long way to go on the dev side of things. To be clear I absolutely want this platform to succeed, this is just a vent.